Book reviews

The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters A book by Priya Parker

I am sure we have all been frustrated with meetings that run too long or end up completely off course and focusing on only a few people’s agenda, rather than for the good of all.  I was fortunate enough to come across this book that deals with exactly these issues and more.

Priya Parker offers a fresh and insightful take on how we come together—whether for work, celebrations, or community. Far from being a manual on event planning, the book explores the purposeand powerbehind meaningful gatherings. Parker challenges the default ways we host and attend meetings, arguing that intentionality is the key to creating memorable and impactful experiences.

One of the most valuable lessons from the book is the idea of setting a clear purpose for a gathering. Parker emphasizes that every meeting, no matter how informal or routine, should have a distinct goal and structure to help participants feel focused and engaged. Her strategies help elevate even the most mundane interactions into something with energy and clarity. I found her tips especially helpful for creating a sense of expectation and purpose—tools that can be applied just as effectively in a boardroom as at a dinner table.

Parker also offers practical techniques for gently steering meetings back on track when they go off course, and for ensuring everyone’s voice is heard. Her advice on how to hold space for diverse perspectives is both empowering and inclusive.

Beyond the logistics, there are joyful and creative suggestions woven throughout the book—icebreakers, opening rituals, and even how to close a gathering with intention. These ideas help people feel comfortable and connected, breaking down barriers and building community.

Overall, The Art of Gatheringis a thoughtful, engaging guide that invites us to be more deliberate in how we meet. Whether you're planning a workshop, family event, or casual catch-up, Parker's insights will inspire you to design gatherings that are not just effective, but deeply human.

This book is now available on Amazon.